RESOURCES
Finding Our Voices is filling in the gaps across Maine with innovative, survivor-informed, and quick-response programs that empower our sisters to escape danger and misery, get back on their feet and rebuild their lives plus provide stability for their children, and heal.
Access to Donated Dental Care
If you are a Maine woman seeking help with dental problems that stem from abuse by an intimate partner, please fill out this form.
Dental Care Donated to Maine Domestic Abuse Survivors Tops $325,000.00
Groundbreaking Finding Our Voices program started as a Christmas wish and now involves 37 dentists Across nine counties
Camden MAINE: Maine dentists have donated $325,000 in pro bono dental care to women survivors of domestic abuse in a groundbreaking program that fixes damage from emotional as well as physical trauma.
Finding Our Smiles is a program of the survivor-led, grassroots, and statewide nonprofit Finding Our Voices. It involves 37 general dentists, oral surgeons, endodontists, prosthodontists, orthodontists, and dental hygienists across nine counties. Dental labs across the country are also participating.
In three years, 47 Maine women survivors have had their smiles and confidence restored, and in most cases their general health as well, according to Patrisha McLean, CEO+Founder of Finding Our Voices. For example, volunteer dentists have fixed a tooth that was chipped during an attempted-murder assault, and others have restored teeth that decayed due to decades of “not being allowed” to visit a dentist or even to brush their teeth.
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McLean said that Finding Our Smiles is apparently the only pro-bono dental program in the United States that exclusively treats women domestic abuse survivors, and the only program that provides restorative dental care for psychological as well as physical abuse.
The program’s dental advisors Dr. Rob Berube, an oral surgeon in Augusta, and David Pier, a general dentist in Midcoast Maine, have donated $66,000.00 in collaborative dental care for Finding Our Smiles patients.
Dr. Pier of Mt. Pleasant Dental Wellness has given back smiles to 17 domestic abuse survivors through the Maine program.
“I’ve treated women who were struck in the mouth — one with a baseball bat, another with a crowbar,” he said. “Others were denied basic dental care because their abusers forbade them from missing work or even brushing their teeth. For these courageous women, their damaged smiles are daily reminders of the violence they’ve endured. Restoring their smiles does more than repair teeth — it restores dignity, confidence, and hope.
“One patient told me, ‘For the first time in years, a mirror is my friend rather than my enemy.”
McLean said Dr. Pier’s “Yes” three Christmases ago to her text message of “Please can you give back the smile” of a sister-survivor was the spark for the group’s pro bono dental program.
Dr. Rob Berube of Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery committed to Finding Our Smiles after hearing McLean’s presentation about the program to a Dental Society where he was also a speaker. He has since helped to bring 15 of his colleagues into the Finding Our Voices program.
“In my 30-year career,” said Dr. Berube, “I have never seen an organization develop such a comprehensive provider network to serve truly needy patients on personal journeys to safety, health and happiness.”
McLean said three dentists and one dental lab came together to give back the smile of a woman from Auburn named Christina whose front teeth smashed when an intimate partner pushed her down a long set of concrete stairs. Prosthodontist Dr. Bright Chang and Oral Surgeon Dr. Matt Lawler of Southern Maine provided treatment valued at $16,000, with Dr. Jessica Sikora of Gagnon Dental in Farmingdale and North Shore Dental Lab out of Boston also donating their services.
Because the survivor was very nervous about the first dental surgery, Mary Kamradt, Operations Director of Finding Our Voices, traveled from her Rockport home to Dr. Lawler’s South Portland office to provide sister-support, and five months later to Chang’s Portland office to celebrate Christina’s brand-new, radiant smile and fresh start to her life.
Finding Our Voices receives no government funding and looks to individual and corporate donations as well as grants to fund Finding Our Smiles expenses which are primarily administrative time, according to McLean. Finding Our Smiles sponsors are Northeast Delta Dental Foundation, which provided a 2025 grant of $7,500.00, and Kennebec Savings, which provided a 2025 grant of $5,000.00.
“I am stunned by the generosity and kindness of Maine’s dental community,” said Mary Kamradt. “It is heartwarming to see dental providers join forces for our sister survivors—and heartwarming all over again to hear how that care leads to a first job after escaping abuse, getting out into the world after being embarrassed to leave their apartment, and being more present and joyful for their children.”
For a list of the dentists and dental labs volunteering with Finding Our Smiles visit https://findingourvoices.net/. McLean said the group wants to expand the program and invites dental providers not yet on board to get in touch with her at hello@findingourvoices.net
Finding Our Smiles is operated through referral. McLean said that anyone interested in its pro-bono dental help should contact Finding Our Voices through the nonprofit’s website and not the dental offices.
Financial Assistance
Our Get Out Stay Out Fund provides financial assistance to Maine women for critical items to escape danger from an intimate partner including expenses for shelter, car, legal, home security, utilities, and phones. This is mostly through referral from a caseworker.
We DO NOT find housing or jobs.
To apply to this fund please click here .
Children's Fund: We provide joy and comfort to youth traumatized by domestic abuse with gifts their moms do not have the money to provide, including art, music and theater camp, driver's ed, grooming shears for an 11-year-old to take care of her pet dog, musical instruments, sports equipment, back to school clothes, birthday parties, and Christmas presents.
Healing Together Opportunities
“One of the most painful parts of being a survivor of abuse is spending so much time with people who don’t ‘get it.’ Being with these women gave me hope, and empowered me to share my voice with bravery and confidence. I continue to write with new-found ambition, healing more and more every time I put pen to paper.”
Finding Our Voices regularly hosts day-long and weekend retreats for women survivors that include memoir-writing and craft-making, personal safety, and songwriting. Our sliding scale fee starts at a refundable $50. Sign-up to learn of these opportunites here!
Online Support Group
“The group discussions bring up so many muddled issues to be sorted, cleaned, and healed."
For four years, we have been meeting online Mondays at 6 pm to support each other in a safe, nonjudgmental space.
Groups range from 12 to 28 women survivors. Some of us have been out for more than a decade, some are freshly out, and some are still living with their abuser. Many are moms whose exes are continuing to abuse them by weoponizing their children and the courts.
If you are interested in joining us please fill out this form.
Sisterly Love
We mail out gift packets every day to our survivor sisters across Maine that include personally-inscribed books that were helpful to us during our own journeys, yellow writing journals, and our yellow power-bracelet.